Confused Thinking About Homosexuality

A church sign says "I kissed a girl and I liked it then I went to Hell"In an article subtitled “Christian defense against Homosexuality,” the Christian Apologetics and Research Ministry (CARM) attacks homosexuality.  I’ve pulled out claims that need a response.

Homosexuals want others in society to think like them (and behave like them?).

Is this the fabled Gay Agenda® where homosexuals will make all Americans homosexual to weaken the country for an eventual Communist takeover?  Or something?

“If you have to ask, you are probably already under its pernicious influence and blithely hop-scotching your way straight to Hell.”  Thank you, Betty Bowers.

They want others to accept them.

Well, yeah.  Is that a problem?

What gives them the right to try and change society into what they want it to be?

I’m pretty sure that’s what they said about African Americans during the Jim Crow period.

Saying that homosexuality is natural because it occurs in the animal kingdom does not mean it is morally correct. Animals also eat each other alive, devour offspring, etc. Should we imitate those things as well because the animals do it?

So then do we at least agree that homosexuality occurs in nature and then is, by definition, natural?

As for morality, let’s not get cocky.  For barbarism, no one beats humans.  Only humans have invented war.

But to address your point: eating someone causes harm.  Homosexuality doesn’t cause harm.  Simple, right?

From an evolutionary perspective how does homosexuality further the development and distribution of the human species? It cannot. Homosexuality would obviously work for self extermination.

Homosexuality has been well documented in 500 animal species.  Your concern about evolution is laudable, and yet it has stumbled along for three billion years just fine without your help.  But thanks for asking.

If we were all homosexual, that would be a problem.  If we were all female, that would also be a problem.  Neither possibility is on the table, so we needn’t worry about homosexually-induced extermination.

How is it natural if what it leads to is self destruction? It would seem that natural selection would have removed the “gene for homosexuality” since it would not lead to reproduction. It would seem then, that homosexuality is not natural but is a learned behavior.

Why would a heterosexual person act in a homosexual fashion?  If you’re heterosexual, does this seem like something you’d want to do?  How can you pick up an activity that disgusts you?  Is there some benefit to homosexuality that would motivate you?

I don’t get it.

If a behavior is said to be natural to a person and this is why homosexuality should be accepted, is it not also natural that people lie and so they too should be accepted?

Let me propose a simple rule: if it causes harm, we should minimize it.  Lying causes harm; homosexuality doesn’t.  Simple, right?

They are already free to marry a person of the opposite sex, the same as anyone else.

Seriously?  You’re really going to make this argument?

The Colored folks had their water fountains, just like the White folks did.  No problem, right?  Golly, Jim Crow laws aren’t so bad when you reframe them like that!

For homosexuals to advocate redefining marriage so it can include union between a man and man, and a woman and a woman, and to have it protected legally, is to want special rights for them …

Quiz question: when was marriage last defined (or redefined)?  If you said, “When God invented it in the Garden of Eden, and it’s been a constant ever since,” you need to read more history and less Bible.

In fact, it was redefined in 1967.  Before that point, laws in many states prohibited mixed-race marriages.  African Americans could marry someone of their race, the same as anyone else.  That’s fair—who could complain about that, right?  The Supreme Court disagreed, and anti-miscegeny laws in 17 U.S. states were overturned.

The apostle Paul made clear that marriage was second best and that chastity was preferable (1 Cor. 7:8–9).  Marriage wasn’t even a Christian sacrament until the twelfth century.  Throw in polygamy from the Old Testament, and it’s clear that the church’s attitude toward marriage is a moving target.

Once again, the church is late to the party.

If freedom to marry whomever you want to is the litmus test for marriage, then marriage will become meaningless as people redefine it to include those already married, siblings, children, animals, etc., as long as “love” is the defining characteristic.

Things that cause harm are bad, and things that don’t aren’t worth a lot of concern.  We’ve already figured that one out.

As for “Next, people will want to marry their sex toys,” let’s wait until that happens before we worry about it.  Rights and privileges almost always have exceptions—you can own a gun, but with exceptions; you can drive a vehicle, but with exceptions; you have free speech, but with exceptions; and so on.

The same-sex marriage proposal is to adjust the exceptions, not discard them all.

Homosexuals are using the civil rights movement to force their moral agenda on the rest of society…a moral agenda based on sexual behavior.

The issue isn’t behavior; it’s who people are.  People can’t change their racial appearance, and they can’t change their sexual orientation.

Unalienable rights are given by God, according to the Declaration of Independence in the U.S.A.

Whoa—you really don’t want to go there.  Marriage isn’t being decided by a celestial court but rather a human one.

Since the topic is laws (how marriage is legally defined), here’s another quiz: The Declaration of Independence says that “Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from …

  1. Jehovah”
  2. the God of the Universe”
  3. the consent of the governed”

Of course, the last one is the correct answer.  The government doesn’t turn to God for its authority but to the people.  (Which is actually pretty empowering.)

Anyway, the Declaration of Independence is irrelevant since it’s not the supreme law of the United States—the Constitution is.  Bringing up the Declaration instead of the Constitution is an admission that our laws are in no way built on God.

What about necrophiliacs, and those who practice bestiality? They also are defined by their sexual behavior. Should they also be protected legally? If not, why not?

We have laws against behavior that hurts people.  Wow.  Why is this hard?

Anyway, who cares?  What’s the downside to same-sex marriage?  I’m married, and it wouldn’t affect me at all.

If it bugs you, tell straight people to stop having gay babies.

Related links:

  • Matt Slick, “Homosexuality Cut and Paste Info,” CARM.
  • Katy Perry’s music video “I Kissed a Girl.”

12 thoughts on “Confused Thinking About Homosexuality

  1. Hi Bob,

    The only real objection against homosexuality is that if we accept homosexuality on liberal grounds (of the kind “live and let live” or “they don’t harm anyone else”, then we are powerless to keep consensual incest forbidden. But consensual incest is repulsive. So…

      • To Bob,

        So… you would agree to let an adult son have sex with his mother or an adult daughter have sex with her father, provided they give consent???

      • If they’re all adults, what grounds would you suggest we use to prohibit it?

        As an aside, this is happening as we speak, and we’re not able to do anything about it. This worry is disconnected with reality, it seems to me.

  2. To Bob,

    Wow… your moral instinct appears to be twisted if you don’t see the evil of incest. Of course I can’t rationally explain why incest is always wrong. But do I need to? Everyone before the sexual revolution condemned it and most of people still do.

    Which by the way puts monotheists in an awkward position, because if we originated with a first couple, then how did we escape incest?

    • You don’t see a weakness in your position if you can’t explain why it’s rationally always wrong?

      We’re all born with a revulsion of incest, which is why it’s not a problem. I’ve heard that in cultures where children of royalty were betrothed at birth, they had to make sure that the girl wasn’t introduced into the boy’s family too quickly or else the two children would grow up as siblings. That made sex after marriage difficult. This would trigger some sort of natural anti-incest preservation instinct.

      If incest repulses you, no problem–don’t do any. Keep in mind as well that there are couples all over the world (maybe … just down the street from where you are right now!) having some sort of sex that repulses you. Nice, clean-cut, heterosexual couples who do kinky stuff that is disgusting.

      But who cares? It’s not hurting anyone.

  3. To Bob,

    Something else: there is no evidence from the Bible that homosexuals will go to hell. Sure, Paul says that homosexuals will not inherit the kingdom of god, but in that time, homosexuality meant sexual child abuse. There was no concept of a romantic, monogamous homosexual relationship. In another place, Paul says that God is angry at homosexuals, but that does not mean that God will send them to hell. Some sins are not heavy enough to separate you from God.

    Another clue is that Paul does not mention the stoic view that sex is only for procreation. For Paul, sex can be used within marriage to avoid temptation.

    • Good point. And what’s the lesson from Lot and the crowd of Sodomites? Maybe simply that gang rape is a bad idea. Hey–who doesn’t agree with that?

      The story of Sodom and Gomorrah says nothing about monogamous homosexual relationships.

      • Hi Bob,

        Indeed. Monogamous, romantic, homosexual relationships were not admitted in the West before well into the last century. Homosexuality before was reduced by society to random sex without any bond. And many people still stick to the view that homosexuality is just about sex and lust, as if love were impossible.

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